This past May, my 16-year-old son got his drivers' license. I don't know who was happier, me or him.
My husband and I decided that the best thing to do would be to buy a third car, call it a family car, and let him drive it. OK, that is not
entirely true. My husband, who did not have the luxury of his own car to drive when he was in high school, did not think a third car was entirely necessary. I, on the other hand,
did, seeing as I was the one doing all the chauffeuring.
We did our due diligence when shopping for a car. We made sure not to get a make or model that would be more expensive to insure. We got a great deal on a newer, lower-mileage car by buying through an auto auction (thanks to a cousin who is part owner of a car dealership). We set a budget ($5000) and did not go over, and we paid cash. Granted, it hurt more than a little when our insurance premium more than doubled. Thank goodness for the good student discount, which saves us about $500 per year (I kept trying to get my insurance company to give him an Eagle Scout discount, too, with no success). We do not have comprehensive coverage, and we have a fairly high deductible.
So, how does shelling out $5,000 for a car and an additional $1,600 annually for car insurance rate as being frugal?
It saves me
time (and sanity). No more do I have to run him
to and
from swim team practice, work, Scouting and youth group events, early-morning seminary (a church class that meets before school every day). Gone are the days of picking him up after a band practice or performance. I can send him on his way to swim team practice every afternoon, and instead of having to race home to throw dinner on the table after picking him up, I have it waiting on the table when he gets home. This makes a huge difference in what I can serve for dinner each night, especially if there is something else we have to attend in the evening, and as a result, cuts down on the number of times we feel we don't have time for anything other than fast food. He can also take his brother places for me (he can't drive anyone other than family members for the first 6 months). Again, a huge timesaver for Mom.
It saves
gas. Instead of me making two trips to pick up and drop off, he is only making one trip. Over the course of a year, that saves a lot of gas and greenhouse gases. And, he is doing it in his car which is more fuel-efficient than my mini van. It also saves wear and tear on my mini van, which is the more expensive of the two vehicles.
It teaches him some
responsibility. He needs to follow the provisions set forth in his provisional license. (Our state sets limits and guidelines for the first 2 years of driving.) He knows that if his grades fall below the good student discount threshold (3.0 GPA), he gets to pay for the difference in the insurance. Likewise, if he is ticketed or at fault at an accident, he gets to pay not only the difference in the insurance premium, he gets to pay it
all. If the car is damaged or totaled in an accident, he gets to pay to replace it. So, it is definitely in his best interest to be a safe, conscientious driver, and to keep his grades up.
My frugality vice is definitely Clorox Disinfecting Wipes. They aren't exactly a necessary purchase—or are they? Could I do the same thing with a washcloth and some spray cleaner, thus eliminating the need to throw out the used wipes? Sure, I could. But, I find that the benefits from this product—namely convenience, effectiveness, and germ-killing—are something I am willing to pay for. I like having them at my fingertips in the kitchen and bathrooms. They are quick to use. I'm more likely to grab a wipe and shine a grimy bathroom countertop on the fly than grab a clean rag and bottle of spray cleaner. I really like these wipes in the kitchen, where they are infinitely more sanitary for cleaning the counters, especially when cleaning up after preparing raw meats, etc.
