Sunday, November 5, 2017

Marie’s Musings on an Adulthood Spent Losing (and Gaining and Losing) Weight

OK, friends, if you are reading this post, you have asked me how I'm "doing it" as I lose weight--again. Here it is, for what it's worth.

First, let me say that not every method works for everyone. Ha, not every method works each time you try it. The gist of what I am going to tell you today can really be summed up in one sentence:

“Find what works for you.”

Adjust as necessary. Case in point: I joined Weight Watchers in September of 2011 and was a faithful weekly member until I moved to Utah in August 2014. During that time I lost 100 lb and kept it off for nearly 2 years. Upon moving to Utah, I got off track, started eating my way through all my emotions related to the move, and never found a WW leader/group with whom I connected. And, they changed the point system—again. I just couldn’t get back in the groove. When I got serious this summer about getting my act together again, I decided I didn’t want to spend the money to rejoin, but to use what I learned at WW along with all the different weight loss methods I have tried over the years, including Atkins (my least favorite), South Beach, 20/20 Lifestyles, and Weight Watchers.

Exercise
Yes, you have to do some form of exercise. Find something you like to do, or you won’t do it. I love walking, though going for a 30+ minute walk every day this summer probably exacerbated my foot issues. Now, I ride our stationary bike. It’s not my favorite exercise but it has several advantages over walking, especially this time of year. It’s indoors, I can do it when it is dark and cold outside, it doesn’t aggravate my tendinitis and bone spur, and I can multitask. I set my timer for 22-25 minutes, and use that time to check Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, and read on my Kindle app. Sure beats staring at the wall for 25 minutes thinking about how much I want the time to be over!

I’ve found that exercising in the morning keeps me moving and burning calories all day long. During the school year, I generally only manage to exercise on weekends. That has the added benefit of allowing me to eat a little more on weekends because I have more calories to burn.

Drinking
I drink only water, with one diet Coke per week, usually on Saturday when we have lunch at Subway. For years, I was hooked on diet Coke and had one (or more!) per day. I had read all the studies warning that even diet sodas adversely affected weight loss, but I ignored them. Call it coincidence, but I stopped my daily diet Coke habit the same time I started actively working on my weight again this time.

Tracking
Tracking is important. Calories (or points), exercise, water consumption, current weight, body measurements (which, sadly, I didn’t do before I started this time around), etc. There are tons of apps—many of them free—that will help you with this. When I was doing Weight Watchers, I used their app, but it was part of the monthly fee so I don’t use it anymore. The app that Rob (who has lost 28 lb) and I are using is called My Fitness Pal. Aside from tracking calories for food and exercise, you can enter recipes (easier to do on the website), and it has a large database of foods. I love being able to scan a barcode on a food to add it to my diary. It of course includes a weight tracker, and one of my favorite features is that you can connect with friends via FB or via your contacts list, giving you a community of supporters. If you decide to use it, look me up and we can be weight loss buddies: CummingsMarie.

Food
Food, for me, is all about quick and easy. I hate cooking and all that goes with it—grocery shopping, menu-making, and cleaning up. I also work full-time during the school year, and just flat-out don’t have time to cook. That led to eating a lot of fast food over the years. I would get home from work and just not be able to face what I had planned to make for dinner. Since starting this most recent round of weight loss, Rob and I have stopped eating out regularly. We go to Subway every Saturday for lunch, and other than very special occasions (like our 30th anniversary in July, or taking the kids out for lunch after family photos), we just don’t go out. Yes, you can manage to find something that will fit your plan at just about any fast food joint, but we have chosen not to. It saves us both calories and DOLLARS like you wouldn’t believe. There are occasions that call for eating out, and on those occasions, plan ahead. Most places have their nutritional info online, or better yet, in your fitness app, so making good choices on the fly isn’t hard, either.

Find what works for you and your family. (Are you sensing a theme?) There’s nothing worse (for a cooking-hater like me) than having to cook one thing for yourself and something else for the rest of the family. Focus on foods that everyone under your roof can eat, enjoy, and modify for their needs. When we had teenage swimmers in the house, they ate what we did, just in larger quantities (LOTS larger), and supplemented with things they needed (like full-fat milk) that we less-sedentary folks did not. Now that it is just the two of us, it’s much easier. We’ve become creatures of habit: chef salad on Saturday, Taco Tuesday, etc. I make the same size recipes as I did when the kids were home, but we use the leftovers for Rob’s lunches, and if we have enough leftovers on Friday, that’s what we have for dinner.

Modify those family favorites. Get leaner hamburger. Use ground turkey. Substitute lower-fat cheeses. Cut high calorie ingredients in half. Make smaller portions. And, when you can’t modify a family favorite any further, save it for days when you have more calories to spare, like on days when you have exercised. Case in point:  one of our favorite Sunday dinners is called Cornflake Chicken. After modifying it to use reduced-fat sour cream, we really couldn’t lower the calorie count any further without compromising what we love about the recipe, so it has been relegated to the first Sunday of the month, which in the LDS faith, is called “fast Sunday.” We fast for breakfast and lunch, and contribute the value of those two meals (called fast offerings) to aid those in our congregation who need assistance with daily living expenses. As a result, we come to the dinner table with our entire day’s worth of calories available, so we can enjoy Cornflake Chicken with no reservations.

Recipes
We have been able to use most of our standard recipes, adjusting portion sizes and substituting lower-calorie ingredients where possible. We’ve also found some great recipes online. I love Pinterest and skinnytaste.com—they are great sources of tasty, low-calorie, healthy dishes. Here are some of our favorites.

Breakfast
Breakfast for me has to be quick, quick, quick. I like having a variety of heat-and-eat options that have been made ahead of time and frozen in individual portions. I usually have a Greek yogurt as well. My go-to for a long time has been Dannon Oikos Triple Zero (120 cal), but recently switched to Dannon Light & Fit Greek Yogurt (80 calories). Maybe you like oatmeal—go for it. Maybe, like my hubby, you like low-fat cottage cheese—go for it. Got time to make eggs every day?—lucky you; go for it! Make it work for your life. Here’s what works for mine:
Lunch
During the school year, I neither have time to go off-campus for lunch, nor are there any places really all that nearby to the schools where I work. I make chili or soup ahead of time, and freeze in individual portions. I pair with a Honeycrisp apple, and about 7 ounces of baby carrots.
In the summer, we grill a lot. Nice steaks, chicken, turkey burgers, etc. Aside from tacos (and taco salad, which is how Rob likes it, with 3 oz of chips), chef salad, a nice beef roast with baked potatoes on Sunday, we also like these recipes:
Ha! I could have saved a lot of time and just said “see skinnytaste.com!”

Snacks
Rob likes to spend all his calories by dinnertime. It works for him to not eat past about 7 p.m. I, however, like to save a few calories for a snack after dinner. I was raised on ice cream, so that’s what I like to this day, brands like Arctic Zero, Enlightened, Yasso, Halo Top, and Low Cow. Ice cream may not be your thing. Maybe it is chips. If you can resist, measure out a serving, and stop when it is finished. Popcorn? Sure. I love Jolly Time’s light kettle corn. No matter your snack of choice, you can find what works for you…this is a recording!

Well, there you go. I hope this helps you think about ways you can reinvent your mealtimes, and get on track to the weight and size you want to be!

Friday, August 13, 2010

Misleading--And Not Worth It

I've been seeing lots of coupons and advertising for affresh, which bills itself as a "dishwasher and disposal cleaner."
Sounded pretty good to me. My dishwasher was looking pretty grungy, and I had been putting off cleaning it just because it is a little tough for me to sit on the floor, and try to contort myself into reaching the back of the washer. So, a few weeks ago, I finally ordered a package from amazon.com, as I didn't have any luck finding it in my local stores. (Gotta love amazon's Prime Shipping!) I tried it the other night, following directions carefully (one tablet in the wash compartment, one in the pre-soak compartment, and one in the disposal). It smelled REALLY nice while the dishwasher was running (on the highest, heaviest cycle), I'll give it that.

The above is NOT the "before" picture. It is the "after" picture. Huh? It doesn't look any different. Rats. Now I'll have to clean the dishwasher the oldfashioned way.

I used Fantastik spray cleaner and a rag and a toothbrush. After wiping up as much of the gunk as possible, I ran another empty cycle using my regular detergent. MUUUUCH better!

As I was working on this post, I grabbed my package and noticed that underneath the words "dishwasher & disposal cleaner" were the words "removes odor from dishwashers and disposals." Doesn't say anything about "removes stains," but to me that was implied by calling it a dishwasher and disposal cleaner.

Lesson learned. While the fragrance was nice, and the dishwasher definitely seemed fresher after using it, it did not do what I expected it to do. I won't be buying this again.

Frugal Readers: Do any of you have a tried-and-true method for cleaning your dishwasher?? Do tell!


Friday, August 6, 2010

Another Great Online Coupon Blog

Another blog/website that I frequent is The Krazy Coupon Lady. This site has a TON of online grocery coupons and other great online deals and freebies, all in one place. You can also follow the Krazy Coupon Lady on Twitter or Facebook. I follow on Facebook, which puts all of her posts right into my news feed. Saving money and finding coupons just got a whole lot easier!

Sunday, August 1, 2010

Finding Online Coupons

I love online coupons, aside from looking for them. A while back, a friend of mine recommended Savvy Sister Shops, and I am just now checking them out. Run by a mom in Utah, this blog finds and posts the latest online coupons and other deals. While some of the coupons and bargains are good only in Utah, many are available nationwide. I'll be checking in with "Savvy Sister" from time to time to see what treasures she unearths.

Tuesday, July 27, 2010

They Call 'em "Stick Ups" Because They're Stealing Your Money

Remember when Air Wick first brought out their Stick Up air fresheners, and their tagline was "this is a good place for a Stick Up." Clever. I remembered it just now after more years than I care to remember. They're not terribly expensive (I just checked on amazon.com, and they run less than $2 for a 2-pack), until you realize that they're nothing more than some fragrance and maybe some baking soda.

Here's my super-cheap way to keep your smelly kitchen (or bathroom) garbage can under control: sprinkle plain old baking soda liberally on the bottom of the garbage can itself (not inside the bag). I cover the bottom of my can completely with a thin layer. It absorbs odors exceptionally well, and lasts a long time (several months, if not longer, depending on the thickness of the layer. Switch it out when it starts not doing its job (trust me, you'll know when it's time).


Not only are you saving money, this is easy on the ol' landfill, too, as you aren't having to toss little plastic containers.

Thursday, July 22, 2010

Cheap Eats

This item has been on my to-post list for a while, so it's time to post it.
Every now and then we have a really on-the-cheap meal. For us, it's scrambled eggs with a little Spam and cheese mixed in, and hashbrowns. All the ingredients are really cheap, especially if I cube up some leftover baked potatoes to make the hashbrowns. Better still, it is as quick to make as it is inexpensive.

Fried rice is another good, inexpensive option. I always have some leftover peas or peas and carrots in the fridge. Scramble in a couple of eggs, toss in a handful of cubed ham (or Spam, like we do) or other leftover meat, a packet of seasoning, and there you are. Lunch!

I love this recipe for Oriental Chicken Salad. It's especially cheap if you use leftover chicken from another meal (I grill chicken breast in Yoshida's sauce and garlic, and these leftovers are fantastic in this salad).

Oriental Chicken Salad
adapted from "Eat Up Slim Down"

2 envelopes low-fat chicken ramen soup mix
2 c cubed cooked chicken breast
1 head cabbage, thinly sliced (6 c)--I use a bag of precut coleslaw mix
1 celery rib, thinly sliced (I use celery seed)
1 red onion, thinly sliced (I use minced onion)
3 T seasoned rice vinegar
1 T canola oil
1 t sugar (optional)
Set ramen seasoning package aside. Place noodles in a large bowl. Add water and soak for 10 minutes. Drain. Add chicken, cabbage, celery, and onion.

In a small bowl, combine ramen seasoning package, vinegar, oil, and sugar. Pour over salad, cover and chill 1 hour to allow flavors to blend.

Saturday, July 17, 2010

Partnering with Businesses to Get Supplies for Schools

I just finished my first year working at an elementary school in a technical support role. It's a great job, but I learned the hard economic realities of working in the public schools. You just can't head down to the supply room and find it stocked with everything you could need for your workspace. Most times, the supply room is locked, and the supplies are meted out with an eyedropper by the ever-vigilant office manager. Many of the supplies I had come to take for granted in my former job in the private sector (3-ring binders, hanging file folders, etc.) just aren't available. And, this is in a school district that is weathering the storm better than many. We still have budget issues (don't get me started on the budget battle we parents had to fight this spring to save sports and music), but compared to many districts across the nation, we are doing OK.
This spring, I found out that my former employer (MFE for short) was going to have to cut their office space by 30%, due to a huge cost increase in their lease. This meant getting rid of close to 100 4-drawer filing cabinet, and oodles of gently-used office supplies--three-ring binders, file folders, large metal binder clips (those big, heavy paper clip things), bulletin boards, etc. Having left there on good terms, I was able to inquire about taking some of the surplus off of their hands. MFE was delighted to get rid of some of their excess, and were doubly thrilled to learn it would be going to my school.
My school office manager was absolutely delighted as well. I was able to get dozens of three-ring binders, boxes of hanging file folders and manila folders, two large boxes full of metal binder clips, an electronic three-hole punch, stacking file trays, 2 bulletin boards, a regular three-hole punch, stacks and stacks of scratch paper (printed only on one side), and more (I can't remember what all, exactly, but that's the bulk of it). I took one of the filing cabinets for use at home since the school had no need for it.
This was a true win-win situation. MFE got rid of a lot of things that they no longer needed. My school got a lot of things that we could not have afforded otherwise. Landfill space was spared! I have also arranged with the copy center person at MFE, who will continue to collect used-on-one-side paper for me. Schools can never have enough scratch paper. Again, this saves money and resources.

For those of you who work in the private sector, regardless of whether you have kids in schools, I challenge you to look around your office. Cozy up to your supply person. When there's a surplus of items in the office that your kids' school (or your neighborhood school) could use, speak up. Start saving paper from your printouts. If you would normally just toss it in the recycle bin and it doesn't have business-sensitive information on it, that's paper you could donate to a school. Give it a try--and let me know the results!!